The Power of Persistence: When Close to Giving Up on a Dream

Life is full of dreams and aspirations, many of which remain unfulfilled despite our best efforts. From soaring ambitions to modest hopes, the journey of striving for our dreams is often marked by perseverance, setbacks, and eventual triumph. In this article, we will explore the concept of persistence, drawing from personal experiences and stories, to inspire and motivate you to keep going when you feel like giving up.

From Missionary to Military Officer: A Quest for a Better Tomorrow

My journey began at the young age of 15 when my dream was to become a missionary. However, life had other plans. At 17, I was conscripted for National Service in the British Army. As I climbed the ranks, I was approached to serve as a paid Sergeant, but I refused. This decision, deeply rooted in a desire for personal growth and preparation for a fulfilling future, ultimately led me to return to college and pursue my missionary goals.

Never Give Up on Your Dreams

Life is about finding new opportunities and contentment amidst the challenges we face. For instance, when I was younger, my dream was to become a famous writer, but this dream never materialized. Yet, I never stopped writing, and today, I consider myself a writer. Similarly, my dream of entering politics never became a reality, but I have found ways to stay involved and enjoy this field. Life is also about staying curious, exploring new interests, and pursuing various careers.

The Journey Through Trials and Tribulations

Another testament to the power of persistence comes from an elderly friend, who dreams of being a professional musician, much like the musicians he admired during his youth. While he was not naturally gifted, he still pursued his passion by performing at a local church, raising money for a noble cause. This smaller-scale dream fulfillment is a reminder that our efforts, no matter the size, can still bring meaning and joy to our lives.

Reflecting on Your Path

When you are close to giving up on a dream, it is crucial to reflect on your motivations and goals. Consider the words of Laure Lynch's poem, which serves as a poignant reminder:

"Reflect on these words, My lad or My lass
Before you commit to following this path
Think well before donning the knot of the slain: in return for wisdom will you share My pain
Once you've promised your life once you have sworn
Will you rejoice or your sacrifice mourn
Will you embrace every hardship I bring to your life
And know that they temper you: as fire a knife
Will you grow to be My seer, my warrior, my mage
Or will the love you once bore Me turn to hatred and rage
For be warned, My seeker: if Me you choose
Only sacrifice is certain
All else you may lose."

These words compel us to reflect on our choices and the sacrifices we are willing to make. They urge us to consider not just the potential pain but also the transformative journey and the growth that comes with persistence. Remember that the process, though challenging, can lead to incredible personal development.

Conclusion

The pursuit of our dreams is not always easy, and we may face numerous obstacles along the way. However, the key to personal fulfillment lies in our willingness to persevere, to find alternative paths, and to embrace the journey rather than just the destination.

Additional Resources

Books: "The Alchemist" by Paulo Coelho Podcasts: "The School of Greatness" by Lewis Howes Articles: "Overcoming Obstacles to Achieving Your Goals" on