The Worst Career Mistake: A Special-Education Bus Monitor's Blunder

Yesterday, I made one of my career's worst mistakes as a special-education bus monitor. I was woefully late, disheveled, and confused about the time I had to leave home. When the bus driver called me inquiring about my lack of presence, I was still at home and shocked by his call until I realized my error. I lied to everyone, claiming I had fallen while descending a public bus. Thankfully, another monitor, who lived close by, quickly covered for me. However, the incident deeply affected me. I am now depressed, lack trust, and believe many monitors handle more important issues without such an incident.

Arrogant Behavior and Career Departure: An Empowering Experience

User empowerment and voice are crucial today. I once worked at a DoD contractor position in an office with an arrogant and rude O-2. One day, I called him out on a silly mistake. His response was immediate—he went to the office manager in tears, claiming I had picked on him. The next day, I was removed from the contract. Not long after, I was laid off. Ironically, this tough experience led me to a career that lasted over twenty years. Although difficult at the time, I am grateful for it.

Technical Support Fiasco: A Learning Opportunity

I once worked for a grocery store's computer systems, handling a very bizarre fill-in shift. My role was to open the lines at 5 AM to answer odd calls in the early morning. On a particular weekend, I found myself managing three critical issues by 5:15 AM. During the third call, I failed to convey the urgency of the situation when I said I wouldn't open it and would get to them as quickly as possible. According to my manager, I was overly plain in my communication. We discussed what I should have said, but the fact that I wasn't a technical manager hindered his understanding. In response to whether I regret this, the answer is a resounding 'no'. Over 40 years in professional technical work, I am experienced in not dwelling on past mistakes or decisions.

Lessons from Past Errors

Many career paths are built upon past mistakes and decisions. Reflecting on these experiences often leads to personal growth and stronger decision-making skills. I have over 40 years of professional technical work under my belt, and often, the rougher paths lead to greener pastures. Embracing these challenges is more than just an opportunity; it's a crucial part of personal and professional development. My advice to you is to focus on your strengths and continue improving over time. Rectify your shortcomings, but don't let them define you.