When Widely Celebrated Behaviors Are in Fact Mental Illnesses

Does it depend on one's definition of mental illness when certain behaviors are celebrated or normalized? The answer is subjective and often blurred.

Borderline Personality Disorder: A Cultural Obsession

One of the most notable examples of behaviors that are celebrated but actually constitute mental illnesses is borderline personality disorder (BPD). This personality disorder is showcased in countless reality television series, social media influencers, and the entertainment industry. Those who are willing to humiliate themselves, often at the cost of self-respect, in pursuit of attention and approval, are highly regarded. However, this superficial and self-destructive behavior, while superficially admired, can be deeply problematic.

Depression and Suicidal Thoughts: When Normal Becomes Abnormal

Another example is depression. Feelings of sadness are a normal part of the human experience, but persistent and debilitating depression is not. Depression is the prolonged state of despondency that interferes with daily functioning. Similarly, suicidal thoughts are not normal and are a serious symptom of mental illness. People suffering from suicidal thoughts are likely experiencing a crisis situation that requires immediate attention and intervention.

Addictions and Personality Disorders

Addictions, such as alcohol, tobacco, pornography, and various sexual deviations, are often symptomatic of underlying personality disorders. These addictions can also include extreme behaviors like obesity, firearm fetishism, or gender identity disorder. In these cases, the desire for validation and the pursuit of extremes can become a means of coping with deeper emotional issues.

Greed, Intolerance, and Authoritarianism: Societal Dysfunctions

Historically, greed, , and authoritarianism have been major societal dysfunctions. They can often manifest as mental health issues, especially in individuals who lack empathy and the ability to understand the viewpoints of others. Bigots who claim that it is normal to hate and fear people who are different from themselves are not only misguided but potentially suffering from a mental illness.

The Need for Mental Health Awareness

The normalization of mental health issues often stems from a lack of awareness and understanding. It is important to educate the public on the signs and symptoms of mental illness and provide resources for those who need help. Reaching out to professionals, such as therapists, or seeking support from online communities, can be life-changing.

Should we continue to celebrate these behaviors or should we reframe them as mental illnesses that require diagnosis and treatment? The question is challenging but necessary to address in the modern digital age.