Experiences of Arabs in Non-Arab Countries: A Personal Perspective

My personal point of view on living and doing business as an Arab in non-Arab countries paints a complex picture. From my observations and conversations with Arab friends in Malaysia, to my own experiences as a half-Arab living in the United States, I'll share insights, challenges, and cultural interactions that provide a broader understanding of the Arab diaspora.

The Business Landscape in Malaysia

In Malaysia, particularly along Bukit Bintang Road in Kuala Lumpur's Golden Triangle, I've observed a thriving concentration of Arab-owned businesses. These establishments primarily sell attar oils and religious items, targeting a local clientele that aspires to be Arab. Despite having licenses, these traders often face harassment by enforcement officers for free goods and cash contributions. This is a common issue in many non-Arab countries, where foreign businesses, especially those from the Arab world, face consistent scrutiny and barriers.

Living and Identity in the United States

As a person with Palestinian heritage living in the United States, I often find myself caught between cultural identities. The United States is remarkably supportive of Israel, which aligns with the political stance of many Palestinians. Despite this, my life is relatively easy in the U.S., and the only stressor is the sharp criticism I face for having a familial connection to Palestine. My American identity provides a comfortable foundation, but the conflict between my heritage and the policies of my adopted country is a continuous source of tension.

Perceptions and Respecting Religious Differences

It's interesting to note that in predominantly Christian countries, Arabs, including Muslims, are often safe and respected. Even in light of past atrocities committed by Muslim extremists, Christians still hold Muslims in high regard. This highlights the importance of religious teachings such as loving one's enemies, as stipulated by Christianity.

In the Middle East, Arabs living in foreign countries often face unique challenges that differ from those in their home countries. While the treatment of Muslims can vary, it generally reflects the broader respect shown by Christians towards Muslims, purportedly because Christians are asked to love their enemies.

Challenges and Cultural Attitudes

The portrayal of Arabs in non-Arab countries is often skewed, leading to stereotypes that are both harmful and impractical. While there are certainly individuals who exhibit tribalism and arrogance, there are also many who maintain high levels of akhlaq (character and manners). My marriage to an Arab has given me a unique perspective, and I've observed that more than 80% of Arabs exhibit tendencies of zionism, tribalism, and a preference for separation. Regardless of one's religion or nationality, these attitudes can manifest in ways that are recognizable across cultures.

It's important to address tribalism, as it can lead to racism. This point is further supported by the observation that some Arabs, particularly Egyptians, are less likely to display such negative traits, though this is not universally true. True respects and values across cultures lie in avoiding such harmful attitudes and embracing a more inclusive and accepting worldview.

In conclusion, while the experiences of Arabs in non-Arab countries vary widely, there are common threads of unity and division. Personal interactions and cultural exchanges can provide a more nuanced understanding of this complex diaspora.